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Thursday, December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas and Happy 10 Months Old Baby Carter

12/25/14

Merry Christmas to everyone!  Last night we took Carter to Christmas Eve Mass with family and then headed to my aunt and uncle's house for a great dinner.  Christmas is always a festive time of year but it easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of the season and lose sight of the reason for Christmas.  We all know that it is the celebration of the birth of baby Jesus and during this time we reflect on all that we have and all of the blessings that we have been given by his birth.  As children growing up our hearts pounded with excitement that the birth of baby Jesus also meant that Santa would be making his ceremonial visit to our Christmas trees if we had been a good kid all year.  As the years pass we go through many life experiences that change our perspective on everything and the Christmas Holiday suddenly evolves into something much more emotional, more personal, and more inspirational.  Last night as Carter prepared for his first visit from Santa Katie and I held him as a family, kissed him good night and laid him in his crib.  As a child I would have reflected on my list that I gave to Santa and if talking back to my parents, making fun of my sister or not doing more good things for others would affect the quantity of presents that Santa brought me.  I would have said my prayers right before climbing into bed and anxiously awaited for the first hint of a.m. to race to the Christmas tree.  Last night however was different.  Ten months ago the Lord watched over my wife, our baby and me as little Carter came into this world.  Last night I reflected on the first days and weeks of Carter's birth and the struggles that we went through.  I thought about the importance of life, why we look to our faith in times of need and celebrate our faith through all of our blessings.  On my way to bed I turned and looked at the tree, the silence of our home and felt an excitement for Christmas as a new Dad that I haven't felt since I was a kid.  This time of year is about the birth of Jesus, it is about the family we love and it is about being there for one another throughout the year to bring blessings to others.  Make that part of your life and no matter how difficult the struggle you will make it through.

Carter woke up at 8 am this morning and after wishing him a Merry Christmas he opened his presents from Santa.  He got lots of fun toys that made him smile and after eating and opening presents he took a long nap.  We had been having some trouble with his eating lately but after his nap he did something quite amazing for him.  He ate two jars of baby food and was focused the entire time.  It was a real relief and a lot of fun for us all.  Here are some pictures from our day today and a few from last night.  Merry Christmas to you all!!  Love The Hoffman Family!!!





Tuesday, December 9, 2014

9 Month Baby Exam

12/9/14

Today Carter went to his 9 month well baby exam.  He also had to have the 2nd part of his flu shot.  He did well and Dr. Sahai was happy with how he was doing socially.  He even laughed for him as he tried to bounce up and down during his exam.  He is now 16 pounds 4 ounces and still eating mainly eating his preemie formula.  He is now 25.5 inches long.  Dr. Sahai said he does need more tummy time to help build his tone.  We had a reminder that Carter although 9 months old is a 5 1/2 - 6 month old in terms of musculoskeletal development.  As a preemie parent you are so thankful of your blessings each day but it can be hard to see slow progress.  You do not try to rush it by any means and you enjoy every moment but you spend so many nights wondering if your baby will make it that you live for every moment of progress.  I think back to our early days in the NICU and remind myself of the physicians and nurses saying that preemies set the rules and do their own thing.  As a preemie parent you learn as you go and think back to all the information that was afforded you by all the professionals and other parents you've met along the way.  Tomorrow we have our gastroenterology appointment to discuss baby food.  I am sure his doctor will be happy to see his weight gain.

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Carter's First Thanksgiving

11/27/14  Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving from Carter!!!  He prepared a special artwork with the help of his teacher's Ms. K and Miss Aileen to share with everyone on his 1st Thanksgiving.


This time last year Katie and I knew that we would be sharing a special 1st Thanksgiving with our new addition however we had no idea how much it would mean.  The past year has brought many challenges but it has come with great reward.  This Thanksgiving we are thankful to have this amazing little miracle in our life and thankful for all that he has taught us.  I have said it before but I will say it again, his strength and determination has gotten us through the toughest times and as we celebrate this holiday and many more to come we are so thankful that God has blessed us with so many gifts of life, health and inner strength.  I am especially thankful for my wife who is not only an amazing mother but an amazing soul mate.  She brought this little man into our lives and her strength to protect him and beat the odds is something I will forever be grateful for.  I am also thankful for our families who have given us so much unconditional love and support.  We are so blessed to have the confidence that our families will do anything for us and for Carter.  Although Thanksgiving has taken on a lot of meanings since the Indians and Pilgrims celebrated it in 1621 the one thing that has been a constant is unity.  We all unite in the blessings that we have through rich family traditions and share our faith and good fortunes.  This holiday has taken on so much meaning and I truly appreciate the prayers and support of so many who read this blog.  

Back to Carter's 1st Thanksgiving.  I know you all are wondering, "What did little Carter eat today for his 1st Thanksgiving?"  Turkey of course......wait little Carter has no teeth and we certainly did not puree turkey so we relied a wonderful blend of........
How did that go you wonder? 
1st bite on its way!

1st taste of a meat......

yum Carter says but he wanted a bit more so..........
Ha just kidding this is not Gastroenterologist approved!

After a nice full tummy of food and love Carter took a nap.  He had a great first Thanksgiving and I hope you all did as well.  Whatever your tradition enjoy food, family and blessings.  We love you all, good night and god bless from the Hoffman family!!


Turkey Butt!!



  



Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Happy 9 months Carter

11/25/14

Happy 9 months old Carter.  This little guy continues to amaze us everyday.  He is eating baby food and still drinking his Neosure.  He has started babbling more and more and tends to be very talkative when he is ready to nap.  dadadadadadadadadadadada is all you hear and I love it.  He smiles a lot and is a very happy baby.  Enjoy the pictures and have a Happy Thanksgiving!  I will post more pictures later in the week so you can all see him eating his pureed turkey dinner, yum!


Mr. Bumblebee has become his favorite, instant smiles when he sees him!

Look at me!  I'm sitting up with minimal assistance my personal best is about 10 seconds but I'm getting better every day!

Monday, November 17, 2014

Gerber Be Our Baby Photo Search 2014

11/17/14

Each year Gerber has a photo contest to find its Gerber Baby.  The prize for this contest is education money which would be a great start for Carter's future.  Below is the link to vote for Carter.  You will need to enter some basic information first then you can do a search for his ID which is 263182.  Then vote.  It's that easy.  You can vote once a day until December 14th.  Don't forget to vote for this little miracle and joy.  And as always check back for more Carter updates.  With Thanksgiving on its way there will be more fun Carter stories to come.

https://photosearch.gerber.com/gallery?entry_id=263182


Sunday, November 16, 2014

Prematurity Awareness Day

11/16/14

Tomorrow November 17th is Prematurity Awareness Day.  I will admit myself I never knew the statistics, the impact or the struggles that these babies endure.  Many do not make it but thanks to research and technology many do and these little boys and girls become our miracles.  The use of surfactant in respiratory distress syndrome, often seen in babies born before 30 weeks gestation improved respiratory complications and survival.  Treating premature babies have come a long way however there is still work to do.  On this day pray for all preemies and get involved in organizations like the March of Dimes who work everyday to improve outcomes and the Ronald McDonald House who help families through one of the most difficult times of their life.  Nine months ago my wife's and I life forever changed as well as the lives of our families.  A miracle was brought into our life and he taught us what strength really looks like.  A lot of people that included doctors, nurse practitioners, nurses, respiratory therapists, occupational therapists, physical therapists, family, and friends never gave up.  They prayed, they supported and they fought for a 2 pound baby that faced a struggle every minute of every day.  This day is for all babies who come into this world too early.